I have always longed to reach out and help the people around me. The many paths I’ve ventured down over the past 40 plus years to help others, I was to learning and understanding this wonderful thing called life.
Many of the roads I’ve taken, have led me down paths to others dealing with issues of struggles with grief, parenting issues, death, addiction, incarceration, homelessness and a sense of loss in their everyday lives.
Many times working with these beautiful individuals brought profound change into my own life, as I would feel every ounce of pain or joy of those I met or experienced a daily life with. I had to learn to use their negative hurts and turn them into a positive, so they could heal and move forward.
Witnessing the lives of others and implementing the tools of turning the negatives of this world into a positive, propelled the healing and continued success of all that I have met with over the past couple of decades.
Bring In Light was started at first as an inmate outreach, where I would personally hand write to long term inmates around the world that never had outside communication. It was an inmate that named Bring In Light via a letter saying “You Miss Lynie, Bring In Light to my darkened corner every week”
My work with Bring In Light now has many outreach purposes, all upon the foundation of learning, healing, loving and understanding that we are uniquely different individuals, but we are all walking Home together.
Lynie L Vinyard
Bring In Light
PO Box 301
Holts Summit, Missouri 65043
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I want to share a letter and a bit of history… I got from a friend that is incarcerated in the State of Oklahoma. His name is Van and I knew him before the terrible fate of his incarceration. So I want to give you a brief background of our history.
Feels like many moons ago, that I worked in my cousin’s Horse Auction every Friday night, helping my Aunt in the concession stand. Though I love the country life, seeing livestock in fields, wearing boots, seeing people wear cowboy hats and the stepping over chewing tobacco pools of spit in this small town lifestyle. I really wasn’t well versed in actually having any type of hands on experience outside of my Friday evening job of serving hot-dogs, pop and cups of coffee to the locals that attended faithfully every Friday night for the Tack and Horse Sale at Robbin’s Horse Auction in little Exeter, Missouri.
Though about a year into this Friday night adventure, in walks, rather stumbles in a real life 1800’s cowboy. Lanky, tall, hat, boots, even chinks (shorter chaps) over his wranglers. His hands were beyond callused, face very weathered by an extremely hard life, he was then and still today is the ‘Only’ real old west cowboy I’ve ever met, he was and will forever be the ‘Only Horse Whisperer’ proven to claim such a title in my book. Van is to me the real deal of living off the land, talented in his horse heritage. I love him dearly, he will forever hold a special place in my soul.
Van and I became the best of friends, he taught me how to wash, ride and sell a horse, and I taught him how to open up and share his hurts so he could heal his broken spirit. We shared oh so many deep and in depth conversations together. He blew me away with his insight into studies, that not one single other human being knew about him. He was completely raw and forthcoming about every single thing in his lifetime. No-one before and no-one since has had this tremendous blessing, I will forever again, be grateful to him.
Van to any other human being was a rough, tough, off the rocker cowboy, clearly born centuries too late, a misfit of a fast paced society, in which he continued to being the square peg in a world of round holes. But when the man loved someone, he loved deeper than any ocean even knowing the cost of his wayward misfit lifestyle, if you were one he loved you’d forever be etched into his heart, soul, might and mind.
As I mentioned he and myself were the best of friends, from day one of him stumbling down the steps to the concession stand, he looked me in the eyes and said “Well there you are, my fine wife” and from that day forward he has yet to call me anything else, but “My Fine Wife”.
For 2 years, Van and myself spend many days, traveled the circuit horse sales around a four state area together with my youngest in tow, buying, selling, trading, washing, sorting nothing but horses. My body was worn slick from lack of sleep, to every bone in my bone diseased body ached relentlessly. We spent two full years in conversation, prayer, tears, laughter at the odds of two very different individuals centuries apart coming together for a purpose none other than to HEAL and find REDEMPTION within his soul for the things he terribly messed up along his way in life.
In the course, I met his mother Darlene (aka. Crazy Daisy) a little spit fire of the Devil himself. Though, didn’t realize this until the unfortunate event that my youngest and I went to stay with her in Oklahoma as she was needing help on her small ranch. Months later, much to my surprise of her frequent road travels, I stumbled upon a terrible history of her abuse, neglect, addiction and waywardness that led her son right into prison, yes, for her crimes that spanned over two decades long. Darlene is the poster-child of what pure evil represents. But back to Van, as in my upcoming book will elaborate in full detail the cunning devises of Darlene, (aka Crazy Daisy)
Van in his younger lifetime had married an incredibly beautiful gal, they had two just as incredibly beautiful children. Though events happened in which he was stripped away from all of them, when they were just babies and yes. he and his then wife divorced. Van wanted them free from the chaos of his own Mother and her abuse, that she invariably got him into by getting him started at a very early age to taking Meth and chasing away his conscience with Alcohol and other recreational drugs. Crazy Daisy did all in her power to wipe out his memories of his little beautiful family, keeping him strung out for her will, not his own.
Though if I had to recollect just how many times in a course of two years the times he said “One day, Crazy Daisy won’t haunt me anymore, she will be caught, she won’t use me as her fall guy anymore, I will someday hope to see my children again, and though we won’t get the years lost, they WILL know that I love them and never stopped loving them.”
Hours upon hours for two years straight, of prayers, tears, promises made between best friends of he and myself. The nights he’d be so exhausted from work, and say “My Fine Wife, take my hand in prayer, let us kneel until our legs go numb, that someday the Lord will see it fit to see my children again, and heal the wretched man I am.”
At the close of our two years of the horse circuit, and after learning more about Darlene, his mother and her evils, Van knew all too well that it was time for me to take my youngest and myself out away from the unending work of life on a ranch and a horse traders lifestyle. My body was spent, my back was gone and I was now disabled physically from enormous physical labor moving, washing, grooming 100 horses each and every horse sale across the four state region.
Though, I promised him on my life that I KNEW that our prayers would be answered for his children and that REDEMPTION would befall upon his head and that true HEALING would prevail him.
Here is his letter:
“Well My Fine Wife,
I am sorry I lost you for a moment during your surgery in December, I know you’ve had to take the time to heal before writing, and they’ve moved me around a lot between prisons. I hope you are doing alright, my Pap had that operation, I know it hurts.
It has been hectic here, though it was good to read your letter. And yes, when I saw my son, my heart went out of me, he made me so proud, but I am proud of you too for helping me. He has become quite the man, he looked good. I thank you so much..!
I work at the Courthouse, I don’t make but a $1.00 per month. They take out for my Court-costs and fines. I love you so much, you have helped me in so many ways and helped me get through so much, before and now with your friendship. Though I am doing alright, I miss you so much, thank you for always believing and knowing I would in fact see my beautiful children again. My son came to see me here of all places, and my beautiful Jess is in my life again too, all thanks to you.” ~Van~
(He added a small note that he is in need of a couple of pairs of jeans size 32×40 and some hygiene items that the Prison will allow me to mail into him. If you would like to donate, please let me know.)
I found his beautiful daughter, Jess shortly after I arrived in Jefferson City in late 2008, she is like the daughter of my heart and is beautiful, talented and has a heart of gold like none other. She too went to see Van before he was incarcerated and took this photo after her visit with him.
He had gotten to a phone to call me on the phone thereafter Jess coming to see him, unable to verbally speak without the flowing tears of gratitude… He could just say “She’s beautiful, she’s beautiful, a good girl too, I cannot believe she was here, I thank you, thank God and thank my Jess” he was so overcome with emotion he couldn’t say no-more but wail tears of happiness…
Thank you for your time in reading this long post today… The moral of the story… Even in a lifetime of abuse, pain, wrong choices, sorrows so deep within the soul… Love, prayers and redemption is possible… If you just have faith, hope and a connection to Heaven’s Grace… Love will always prevail… ~Lynie with Bring In Light~
Lynie L Vinyard
PO Box 301
Holts Summit, MO. 65043
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